“The best part of a relationship is getting to call the person, or lay down next to them, and tell them all the crazy things that happened to you all day long. In the end that’s what it’s about. It’s not about sex, it’s not about the money they give you, it’s not about how good looking they are, it’s about them listening to you talk for hours and hours and hours, about stupid shit that doesn’t matter.”—Tegan Quin (via blackbruise)
This is a photo from our first meet-up with lyrics from one of my favorite songs, “Impossible Soul” by Sufjan Stevens. I can say without a doubt that the weekend we spent together was the best weekend of my life. To those who haven’t met their SO yet, it’s worth the wait. 1300 miles separate us, but I’ve never been more comfortable than when he was in my arms. I can’t wait to see what the future has in store for us :)
We only say "I love you" when we separate in real life....
…. and it’s the only way I would have it.
I think because of distance, a lot of online couples use the word a lot because they can’t even begin tp physically demonstrate their love. For me now, I cherish the times we do say it and it’s one of the biggest outpourings of true love anyone has given me.
User adrianesque posted this awesome biscotti recipe!
I always want to cook stuff for him, but can’t (for now) because of the miles between us. Baking is a great way to cheat! Biscotti travels well because it already is dry and hard, so it won’t go bad while in transit. Perfect with coffee, these baked goodies are sure to leave a lasting impression - he will warmly be reminded of you in the morning while he drinks his coffee and crunches down on the delicacy that you made just for him.
Last week I made some biscotti for my special man. Today, he received his little (or rather huge) surprise package and absolutely loved it. This recipe is impossible to mess up, very easy to do, and makes around 20 biscotti. Enjoy!
tsp = teaspoon
tbsp = tablespoon
NOTE In brackets, [ ], I put what you need if you instead want to make double chocolate biscotti instead of the original flavor biscotti.
2 cups flour
3/4 cup cornmeal
1 and 1/2 tsp baking powder
1 tsp salt
1 cup brown sugar [white sugar]
3 large eggs
1 Tbsp vanilla [2-3 Tbsp cold coffee]
[1/2 cup dry dark cocoa]
[18 oz. chocolate chips]
Parchment paper or Pam
Wax paper and/or wire rack
Preheat oven to 325º F. Line baking sheet with parchment paper or spray with Pam. In a large bowl, mix the flour, cornmeal, baking powder, and salt (and dry dark cocoa if making the double chocolate flavor). Then, add in 1 and 1/2 cups of chocolate chips and mix (if making the double chocolate flavor).
In another large bowl, use the electric mixer to beat the sugar and eggs until it is frothy. Mix in the vanilla (if making the original flavor). Mix in the cold coffee (if making the double chocolate flavor).
Gradually add the dry ingredients (first bowl) to the wet ingredients (second bowl). You must use an electric mixer. The dough is very sticky and thick, by the way.
Let dough rest for 5 minutes. USING MOIST HANDS, divide the dough evenly into 2 equal mounds and place on the prepared baking sheet. USING MOIST HANDS, space the dough evenly apart and form into 2 9” by 3” logs. Bake for 35 minutes until lightly browned. Cool for 5 minutes.
Using a serrated knife cut the logs into 3/4” slices.
Arrange the biscotti, CUT SIDE DOWN, onto the same baking sheet. Bake for 25 minutes. Place the biscotti on a wire wrack or a piece of wax paper and let cool for 15-20 minutes.
For the chocolate biscotti, with the remaining chocolate chips you melt them and use it as a sort of frosting. If you’re mailing them to him, do not top with the melted chocolate chips - it will melt in the mail and it will be a huge mess. But if you keep some of the biscotti for yourself, then top those with frosting to eat.
To melt chocolate chips, you’ll need two pans. One has to be smaller and be able to fit into a larger pan but not touch the bottom. In the larger pan you boil some water, but make sure the water doesn’t touch the bottom of the smaller pan. Put the chocolate chips in the smaller pan and wait for them to melt, stirring occasionally. Once melted, take your biscotti and dip them into the chocolate. Let the chocolate harden - it will take a while. I like the chocolate creamy so I won’t wait for it to settle, I just start eating whenever.
When you’re packaging your biscotti, use air-tight containers and line them with wax paper to guarantee ultimate freshness, cleanness, and a safe ride to their destination. I also recommend using plastic containers to place the biscotti in. One of the containers I sent was this metal container that used to have Christmas cookies in it, and while on the way its top got a little banged up and had some dents in it.
Throw in a handwritten letter and perhaps something else special, and don’t forget to seal it with a kiss. Happy baking! :)
“We met on a game called jk2 (jedi knights II: jedi outcast). We WOULD be together if we lived at least in the same state. I’ve known him for 10 year this year (we met in 2002). It’s very strange. When you see “It’s complicated” on Facebook, you could say that is the definition of us.
We met for the first time in 2006. The second time in 2009. And I’ll be seeing him again in 2 weeks (March 11) for spring break and once more in August for a star wars convention (bwahaha). The first two times we met because we wanted to see if it could work. These next two times we’re just meeting up as “friends”.”—habi12
“My SO and I met on one of the nerdiest games ever! RuneScape. I met him sometime around last January. He had join a clan/guild that I was a mod in. I must say, he was the most annoying troll ever! At first, I think I might have actually hated him,but I think it was neutral between up at that point.
Eventually, some of my clan mates added me into a Skype call with him, at first I was a bit defensive towards him until I realized how cute and shy he really was. We only talked in group calls, I was the only girl out of 3-5 guys in the call, so surely enough they constantly teased me, but he would always take up for me.
After about 4 months of group calls we’d usually end up being the last two people in the call. It was awkward at first, ‘cause he’s shy and doesn’t ever talk!@#$ After a few weeks of it, we eventually started talking to each other. I wanted know know so much more about him. Thank god it was during the summer time. We’d stay up until 4am(10am his time) just talking. Over time we started saying ’ iloveyou’.
Around last August; I think he was scared of the feelings and the thought that he was falling in love with a girl online. So one day he decided to delete me off everything. I was crushed. I got online in time to talk to him before he deleted me off FB. We talked. He told me that he never felt this way before, he was scared, and when he says i love you, it’s not a friend thing. && I reassured him that I loved him as well and that even though it’s online, I’m not leaving.
8/13/11 The same day he wanted to delete me, we started dating. I love him. (:”—Chrissie_
User jenniferjoyus created this wonderful craft idea.
Now this is my first time ever doing it so it may not be perfect.. but I still think you guys could get some ideas from it :)
shaped like the states with little hearts over you and your SO. He’s in Wisconsin and I’m in North Carolina<3 It could also be a necklace or magnet or whatever you want! [Also if you’re in different countries a globe pendant would be adorable too]
All you need is the simple salt dough which is 2 parts flour and one part salt and just enough water to make it a dough. I used 1/2 cup flour, 1/4 cup salt, and about 1/4 cup of water as well. Maybe more.
Cut into separate chunks and use food coloring to dye it the right color [this is my way, you can use actual paint I just didn’t have any :/] I also painted more food coloring on once it got out of the oven.
Also make sure to poke a hole before you bake it with a toothpick/pencil/pin anything if you want it to be a key chain or necklace!
The recipe says to bake at 250F for 2 hours but mine was thin and small so I only kept it in there for 30 minutes or so. Just keep checking :)
You need to seal it after! I didn’t yet because I’m not sure what to use to be honest ha. Also it seems like I made my dough too dry because its cracking quite a bit.
If you try this let me know I’d love to see how it turns out!
So what do you think? Pretty cool huh? If you do try it out, let us know! :3 we’d love to see what you come up with!
“I met my boyfriend in a little mmo called Vindictus in about January/February 2011. We had joined the same guild and his funny banter in guild chat had caught my eye and we ended up finding a private area in the game to hang out and talk in. A few weeks later and I knew I was falling hard for him.
I struggled to convince myself that I had no feelings for this guy whatsoever, but one day he shared a picture of himself with the guild and he was super cute. I told him how I felt about him and he said he felt the same way but did not want to start a relationship over the internet.
Well, too bad! We’ve been together for about 9 months and I met him in person on December and had the most wonderful time with him. I love him :D”—GrandpaJelly
“Ok so my SO and I are both into D/s (it stands for Dominance and submission but since that is not really what this is about I won’t really go into much detail). We met on a site catering to bdsm and D/s and began simply as a Dom and sub. We clicked really well together and got closer. He actually left me as a Dominant for a while but he came back a great friend. We have been talking online for 2 years now and recently told each other we love each other. It was actually kind of cute. We were friends who talked everyday. We would call, text, Skype, and it wasn’t until we started getting off our convos with “I love you” that we finally had the talk.
One night we were up talking late and were talking about when we started getting off the phone like a couple. And he says “You know when I say I love you I don’t mean it as just a friend”. That was the moment I realized just how much in love with him I was.
He’s the only person in the world who totally and completely understands me and is always there when I need him.
So that’s my story. It was amazing for me to find this subreddit! I wish everyone luck in your relationships! :)”—enigmaticsurrender
“I like this subreddit, because it makes me happy to see others stories :). I met my SO on Omegle, like a couple others. We talked for a few hours, and I gave him my AIM screen name, which lead to me giving him my number. From that point on we pretty much talked all day, every day and about a month and a half later, after some serious hint dropping, he asked me out. Now, a year and 10 months later, we’re still going very strong. I always (and still do, kind of) felt so weird about telling people where I met him, but about a month ago I finally grew a pair and told my mom about him. She’s happy for me, and wants to meet him… What she doesn’t know though is that we’ve already met once, in August. I told her and my dad that I was going to the beach for a week haha. But anyway, meeting my SO was pretty much the best, and I am so excited to see him again, whenever that may be.”—samewhitepillar